Tag Archives: Libido

Long Term Relationships and No Sex – Is this the norm?

    A recent CNN health report showed 40 million  Americans are stuck in a sex rut. Most therapists would agree the proportion of  population similarly affected in the UK is equally as high. The reasons why we’re all so bored in bed are  many: everything from unrealistic expectations to stressed lifestyles. Ask the  average […]

No sex, please

Two years ago, Dan Ritter, 19, found himself spending most of the summer fighting off a girl’s sexual advances. There wasn’t anything wrong with the girl, he wants to clarify. He just wasn’t sexually attracted to her. In fact, Ritter started to realise he wasn’t attracted to anyone. “Slowly, I noticed that I was completely […]

Setting a sex schedule

Rowan Pelling‘s sex advice column: He’s set us a sex schedule and it’s stressing me out QUESTION: I never used to have problems reaching orgasm, but, aged 50 and after four years out of relationships following a bad break-up, I haven’t yet managed to climax with my new man (of three months standing). He’s an […]

When women want more sex

The stereotype is that men want more sex than women do – but what happens when it’s the other way around? Women are often portrayed as having low sex drives and that any visit to their sexy town requires more campaigning and negotiation than a UN security council meeting. But what if a woman has […]