Tag Archives: Advice

Blindfolds: A Classic Sex Accessory

When it comes to the popularity of sex toys, blindfolds take a back seat to vibrators. But if you’re so inclined, blindfolds can deliver wonderful sexual enhancement — especially when worn by the woman. Why? One reason involves differences in male and female erotic arousal. Sexologists agree that of the five senses, sight is what […]

I was an unwilling virgin at 33

“Sex isn’t everything,” my mother says lightly, from the kitchen of my new condo. She means to be encouraging. But I stiffen against her words, as if to defend myself. I’ve heard it too many times from too many people – that sentence, so reductive it’s offensive. How easy it is for my mother, who […]

The (Mormon) Sex Girls Explain It All. Desiring to desire, oral sex and becoming stewards of your own body

  Sisters Kristin Hodson and Alisha Worthington are BYU grads, have degrees in social work and are active members of the Mormon Church. They’re also known as the Sex Girls. They’ve also written a straightforward book on sexuality, geared toward Mormon couples, called Real Intimacy (RealIntimacyBook.com). The two say their evolution into Utah’s resident LDS […]

7 Kinky Things She Loves But Won’t Tell You

Him: Nothing? Her: No. Nothing. Him: How come? I touched it like you told me to. Her: Well, what if you, um, bit it a little? Him: You mean like this…? Her: Ouch! Cut it out! Let’s just forget about it. Hit a sexual slump? Don’t worry, it happens. It doesn’t mean there’s anything wrong with you, per se; it just […]

The Biggest Online-Dating Mistakes Men Make

Online dating is a pretty popular topic here at AskMen. I’ve written about it along with just about everyone else with a computer and word processor. But what we don’t always hear about are people’s firsthand experiences. That’s why Ouiser Boudreaux (a pseudonym) created A(n)nals Of Online Dating, a site where online daters can share their […]

Brits love erotic video chats with their partners

  Distance is not letting the flame die out in relationships in the UK as Brits make time for Erotic video chats! UK Medix found that 21% of adults partake in sexy video chats with their partners with 55% engaging in this activity once a month, with a cheeky 11% doing it every week or […]

10 Sex Acts That Are Better In Theory Than In Practice

We’ve had major debates around the office over whether sex in a car is raunchy and exciting or just, kind of, been-there-done-that in high-school. But what we didn’t get to discussing were other questionably hot sex acts like road head, playing with chocolate sauce and sex in the shower. Are these things in-real-life turn-ons or are they […]

7 Signs That Dating Won’t Necessarily Lead to a Relationship. Good insights for men.

When it comes to dating, we women think we are pretty good at telling which “signs” are pointing to a future relationship. After dating someone for a while, we begin to think we have an understanding of what actions are those of a potential boyfriend, and which actions are those of a potential heartbreaker. For […]

When women want more sex

The stereotype is that men want more sex than women do – but what happens when it’s the other way around? Women are often portrayed as having low sex drives and that any visit to their sexy town requires more campaigning and negotiation than a UN security council meeting. But what if a woman has […]